Wisdom to Discern God’s Will

The Four C’s to Walking His Path

By: Pam Farrel

One of the questions I am asked the most often is, “How do I discern the will of God in my life?”

The reasons we ask for wisdom in knowing God’s will varies greatly. The most common needs for wisdom are: Which college should I (or my child) choose? Which job opportunity is best? How can I improve my marriage, parenting, or health? Should we buy a home or rent? How can I find help for my child? How do I deal with a prodigal or young adult child? What ministry should I commit to?

The first vital decision I remember seriously seeking God’s will on was my decision to marry Bill—“God, is Bill the one?” We were both so young, just 19. My parents were in the process of getting a divorce; Bill’s parents were committed, but in a rocky marriage. I had just recommitted my life to Christ, and we were both involved in CRU, an on-campus college ministry, so we pursued the advice of mentors.

That same summer, while I was wondering if Bill was my Mr. Right, God arranged for me to be at a Bible school and I took a class taught by Dr. Dennis Rainey, who had just started Family Life Today. Ever since, I have collected wisdom from many leaders on how to recognize God’s will for my life.

In Discovering Wisdom in Proverbs: A Creative Bible Study Experience, I share the four C’s I use to discern God’s will for my life.