Digging Deeper | Happiness or Joy—The Choice That Changes Everything
A practical reflection to help you apply the message from this week’s magazine.
Dear Friends,
In this week’s magazine, we explored how joy is so much more than a passing feeling. Renee Smith reminded us that joy grows through intentional time in God’s presence. Lisa Elliott showed us that joy can sit quietly beside our grief, holding space for both. And Sandy Mayle helped us see that even our “thorns” can become places where joy takes root.
But how do we take these truths and actually build a life where joy is our default posture? That’s what we’re unpacking today.
The good news is, you don’t have to chase joy—it’s the natural overflow of walking closely with God. Still, there are choices we can make each day that open the door for joy to flourish. These choices form patterns—habits of the heart—that train us to notice God’s goodness, lean on His grace, and celebrate His presence in every circumstance.
Today we’ll look at eight ways to develop patterns for a joyful life. Think of them as invitations—small, daily steps that point you back to the One who is your source of unshakable joy.
Encouraging you in God’s truth,
8 Ways to Develop Patterns for a Joyful Life
By: Mel Lawrenz
Joy doesn’t just appear out of nowhere—it grows in the soil of God’s goodness and grace. These eight practices will help you choose joy daily and build lasting patterns that keep your heart anchored in Him.






